Help me with GOD please i need the help?

i go to church and i go to a youth group for church every tuesday but i only go for my friends and this really cute guy over there and i feel like i am betraying him! and that i am not there for him but how can i get closer to god when i dont know how and i am trying really hard to but i just dont know how i am tired of praying and not bein able to comunicate with god. everyone tell's me to pray more and a sk him stuff and i DO when can i actually appreciate him when i feel that i dont know him at all